Sometimes no matter how hard you explain to family and friends how you feel about them or a situation they don't see it your way or your intentions. This is why things, issues feelings are interrupted wrong. Sometimes they are just plain rude and may seem emotionless or to emotional, people Handel things differently . I am sure they are not happy inside but may feel they are right. You have to let go as hard as it may seem when you come to a block in the road. Like a stream with a rock in its way , eventually the water trickles down sometimes in a peaceful matter other times a rapid waterfall.
People do not like conflict but it happens. Life is about conflict that is how we bring about change in yourself, others and the world. Lets make it for the better, live, learn, breath and be happy it all works out the way it should be.